Thinking about going through a divorce is frightening enough for the average Ontario resident, and if you have never dealt with a lawyer before, meeting with a divorce lawyer can be nerve-wracking as well. That said, if you take a few moments to learn about what to expect and how to prepare before meeting with a lawyer, it will help to calm your nerves.
The first thing to do before meeting with your lawyer is to put together as many facts pertaining to your situation as you can. Gather as much documentation pertaining to your divorce as you can as well. For example, if you have questions about property division, you may want to bring whatever deeds of ownership or receipts you might possess. Meanwhile, if you have questions about parental rights, you might want to bring a copy of your child’s birth certificate to the meeting and so on.
Also, before going into your lawyer’s office, you should take some time to think about what you want to say and the questions you want to ask. It will probably be helpful to write down a list of things that you want to bring up in your meeting because it could be easy to forget certain items once the meeting gets going. Not forgetting important details will be helpful to your lawyer to understand your issues more succinctly and so he or she can understand exactly what needs to be achieved in your case.
At the end of the day, however, rest assured that your family law lawyer understands a great deal more about how your situation will fit into the legal system better than you do. Furthermore, your attorney will know what kinds of questions to ask and what to look for to ensure that your rights are being fully protected throughout your legal process. Knowing this and trusting in your legal counselor’s expertise can also help to calm your nerves significantly as you begin to approach the divorce process.
Source: Findlaw, “Working with your lawyer,” accessed Aug. 07, 2015